Pelvic adhesive disease is the cause of the problem in about 35% of couples that present to our clinics for the treatment of infertility. This unfortunately very common problem stems from an alteration of the normal anatomy of the abdomen from some sort of inflammation. In order to truly understand its’ effect upon fertility, you … Read more
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The Hardest Thing About Being an REI
I would like to cheat on answering this question by giving you two things that I find to be very hard in being an REI or Reproductive Endocrinologist. They are at opposite ends of the spectrum, but balancing them still remains my greatest challenge. The first is that there is no possible way one can keep up with all of the changes and breakthroughs that modern science affords us. When first out of fellowship, we all try to “keep up with things” and read voraciously. With science expanding in the way it does, especially the reproductive sciences, this is an impossible job. It took me several years to find this out, and many complaints from my wife about turning the light out at night. In our struggle to get better at what we do, there are manners to stay abreast of what is happening however. Conferences, small scientific interest groups and doctor chat rooms can supply what is necessary to constantly improve the manner in which we do things without either assuming you know everything or actually trying to accomplish this; which is impossible. At the Sher Institute, the doctors are constantly asking their peers opinions on new research or bringing up new ideas they have come across in their own reading to get the input of the rest of the group.
The second, and more important in my mind, difficulty I have is truly getting my patients to understand what is going on and why. Some patients are very inquisitive by nature and ask the questions that allow them to not only follow why each step is necessary, but how it fits into the pathway to success. Unfortunately, I have found that most patients are almost afraid to ask any questions, especially to their doctor. The more you know about your treatment, the more relaxed you become. IVF can seem like a very complex issue on the surface, but there are basic tenets of understanding that can greatly help patients understand why we are doing what we are doing. When you understand why some of these complicated maneuvers and protocols are necessary it is easier to take care of you. You also become part of your own care team at that point and aid in the treatment and hence in the chances of success. Ask questions, become involved. I have had patients in whose eyes I have seen an almost complete surrender of understanding. This can make both success and lack of success harder to understand and hence harder to deal with. This is one of the reasons I give my patients my direct e-mail address. It makes my cell phone ring. They can contact me at any time and ask me any question. In my heart there are no silly questions, save perhaps the one question you did not ask. So please, in order to help your doctor out and to aid in your own care, ask questions and try to understand what is going on.
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Love this post! I think it’s so true that you need to feel like you can ask your doctor the process and really explain things to you. We all need to be stress free and this is exactly how we can do that. Thanks Dr. Horowitz for this great post! So great to know what SIRM has doctor’s that can admit they don’t know it all but they are willing to do the research and communication to get you the right answer.